Four Steps to Living Your Life by Design and on Purpose


Many of my students and clients are searching for a way to manifest their hearts desire. We often look outside of ourselves for our answers when our truth is tucked neatly inside of us. Should one decide to follow the outline below one will notice a positive change in their life. Wouldn't it be great to have the kind of life we dream about? You can when you choose to live your life by design and on purpose.

Introduction:


Most of us are aware that Mother Earth is currently ascending from the third, slipping through the fourth and into fifth dimension which is shifting into the Golden Age. The process of ascending and the accompanied acceleration of energies affect everyone and everything around us.

As we begin to shift, an entirely new paradigm becomes available to us. Suddenly we realize deep inside of us that everything in manifestation is just energy in one shape or another.  This being the case, our material world suddenly seems less dense and it takes on a whole new world of possibilities. Nothing is firm or fixed anymore. It never really was. It was only our brainwashing into linear perception of the world that made it appear as fixed and firm. The new Source Energies present on earth allows us to see past the veils that were placed upon us and now everything is open to interpretation. When we take a moment to reflect on this deeply, the realization dawns on us that our whole existence here is but a grand illusion, or “A holographic projection".

I know this is rather confusing at first. However eventually you will come to understand that what we perceive as reality right now is not real at all. It is in fact a holographic manifestation or projection of what is real. Remember the movie “The Matrix?” this is the concept we speak of. Perhaps an analogy would help wrap your mind around this concept.

Think of your home computer and consider for a minute the word processing program (Word/ WordPerfect). On the screen it looks fairly easy and operates as a seemingly independent entity. When we look deeper into this tool we realize that it is a construct, a final manifestation of thousands of hours of hard work and thousands of lines of computer source code that makes this program what it is. The reality of this program is not the user's experience of the program, but is in fact that the thousands of lines of source code that makes it work. These thousands of lines of compiled source code result in a seemingly independent program that you can use as a tool to create with. Its true essence is not the display on the screen or the functions it performs, but instead it is just a long set of instructions and logic code that operates inside the specific framework of a CPU and memory chips. The computer is the matrix that allows the source code to become manifest as a seemingly independent entity.

Our 3D reality is the same. It is amazing how many parallels there are between our current reality and the world of computers. For thousands of years we have perceived our reality to be material, to be firm and unchanging. Remember when we thought the world was flat? Now new Source Energy is changing our world and we are being catapulted into a higher vibration. What we previously depended on for sanity is slipping though our fingers as we have the opportunity to embrace a totally new way of being. With these moments of transparency we can see through the fabric of matter and we come to realize that it is only a physical result of an underlying energy matrix. Our reality is not real at all. In fact it is the final product of what can be best described as (using the computer analogy) cosmic source code. There is a spirit energy matrix beneath this physical construct of our world and every day as we step closer to the 5th dimension we peer through the veils and see the vastness of this underlying spirit energy matrix.

Our very dimensional shift implies that we are moving our experience of creation out from the material world into the finer, more vibrant spirit based world of manifest reality. What we once thought of as being real, that which we could see touch and taste is now understood to be a result of an underlying spirit energy matrix, which is a better definition of what really is real. Think about it... If the underlying spirit energy matrix changes, then the material result or physical manifestation would also change.

From this new perspective we can say that our 3rd dimensional world is a manifestation of the spirit energy matrix that supports it. If we can learn to change the spirit energy matrix beneath, learn to change the cosmic source code, then we can change physical manifestation here in our physical world. Very cool stuff, don't you think?

Now that we have a better understanding of the relationship between spirit energy and our physical world, we are better equipped to mold our life experience the way we desire it to be. As part of this dimensional shift, our perceptions and abilities are also shifting. This allows us the opportunity to live a life by purposeful design instead of being a powerless and "helpless victim" to the world around us.

To help you get started with this new way of thinking and to empower you to live life purposefully by design, I have included a few tips that you may think of as "Life Design Choices". These Life Design Choices if practiced and perfected will allow you to experience a totally new reality, one in which YOU are purposefully CO-Creating with the creative energies of the Universe.

Life Design Choice #1


The first Life Design Choice is "Meditation".

 Meditation is defined as "passive listening to the IAM THAT I AM". Regardless of your definition of God, when you are in a meditative state and you manage to quiet the chatter of the mind, you become open and receptive to the Divine Spark within. The importance of daily meditation cannot be overstated. When you are in this state of passive receptivity, a whole new world opens up to you for experience and exploration. There are no limits only the limits you set for yourself. Many meditation techniques exist and you should use the one which bests suits your needs. It is however very important that you follow these basic steps:


· relaxation
· protection
· request or invocation
· passive receptivity

All are self-explanatory but perhaps the second step can use some clarification. Always protect your space where you meditate or do any spirit work. Visually create a cocoon of brilliant white Light around your body (aura) extending at least three feet in all directions. Seal this cocoon with a layer of electric blue Light (from Archangel Michael), much like the shell of an egg. Be sure that your body is positioned in the center of that egg and you are in the center of your head. Also ask Archangel Michael to protect you and your scared workspace by adding a layer of electric blue light to the area that you are meditating in. This protection is important to ensure you are not approached or bothered by "beings' that are not of pure origin, such as from the lower astral planes. You may also make a request to ONLY connect with" beings of light' and energies from the 5th dimension or above. You may also ask if the "being" is from the divine spark of God, if not ask it to leave and it will. Beings will always tell the truth if they are asked.

It is important to establish a fixed routine of meditating every day for 20 minutes to one hour, at the same time of the day. Beings that work with you will spot the fixed time, realize you are serious and dedicated to meditative practice and will show up every day at that same time to work and interact with you. It can be hard to establish such a routine but consider what is more important, television or your spiritual growth. If you wish, allocate the last 30 minutes you would normally watch television before bed to doing your spiritual practice instead. After 21 days it will be a firm habit. It sounds tedious but try it. You will begin love the experience and look forward to it. It could become the highlight of your day and you may be tempted to spend hours in meditation. Remember, enjoy your experience, each one will be unique!

Life Design Choice #2


The second Life Design Choice is "conceptualization". During the meditation, when  you are quietly listening to the divine spark within (Your Higher Self, I AM Presence, ALL-That-Is). You begin connecting to the higher aspects of your multi-dimensional self, (Oversoul) and it is during this state that new concepts are imprinted into your consciousness.  Dr. Wayne Dyer says if you “Believe it you’ll see it”.  In simpler terms, whatever picture you can conceive for the life you wish to live, IS POSSIBLE.

In this essay, you will be given the tools to  make anything possible. Keep in mind that there are no limitations in the Universe, barring ourselves. We set our own limitations and if we can break through our insistence to place limitations on everything, then the universe becomes our cosmic playground. All you need to do is give yourself permission to consider that everything and anything is possible and the only reason that you are experiencing a reality with limitation is because YOU set those very limitations.

Life Design Choice #3


The third Life Design Choice is "visualization". This is a very powerful design choice and is our first action choice. The first two Life Design Choices are passive in nature and require only that you be receptive and stretch your imagination letting go of limitations. Once you have conceived of a desired outcome or preferred result (of anything), your next step is to bring it into your life stream experience (of life consciousness). To bring anything into our lives, we need to create a magnetic pull for that object, person, quality or event.

The first step is to visualize the desired outcome in as much detail as possible. It is important to mentally see (or use your imagination of you are not visual) the final result as if it is currently happening and you have to see it in the first person, as if you are currently participating in the scenario you are visualizing. Seeing a picture of yourself in the scenario but separate from you, as if you are the movie camera, is much less effective than actually participating in the mental scenario directly. It is best to "view" the visualization as if you are in it right now in present time and everything you wish to manifest is taking place around you. Use as much detail as possible. Add feeling and emotion to the visualization. Include all of the five usual senses. See, hear, taste, smell, and feel what you want.

If you wish to have a new car, be specific. "I now call to my life experience an lapis blue metallic, 2006 model, Porsche Carerra, Stone grey leather interior, 6 speed manual transmission and a sun roof by or before December 31st 2006. The next step is to charge this request with a visualization and emotion. Go for a test-drive, and feel the experience of what you want to manifest. See yourself walking out of your house and there it is, shiny and sparkly, parked in your driveway. Walk up to it, open the door, and hear the rubber door seals separate from the metal as the door opens. Slide in the drivers seat, smell the new leather, hear the leather seats creak under your weight as you sink into its plush upholstery.  Rub your hands on the dash board and anything in the interior that you wish to touch. Close the door and feel the air pressure change on your eardrums as the airtight door seal with a click.  How does the key feel in your hand? Start the engine and hear it its reassuring hum. Take a mental note of  the instrumentation panel. Feel the joy in your heart and the adrenaline in your blood. Now back it out of the driveway and take it for a drive.

Use as much detail as possible but focus on what is FEELS like. Feeling is the emotion that creates the magnetic attraction. Keep this intensely focused visualization for a minimum of 7.5 continuous seconds, preferably for 68 continuous seconds. If you want to manifest this exact car in your life, as your own, do a power visualization like this as often as you feel the need, and then let it go, knowing without a doubt that before your set date, the universe WILL manifest this car in your life. Don't be surprised when it does. Be careful what you ask for, as you WILL get it. Letting go means ridding yourself of the fear that you can never have this car.  It also means letting go of how the car will come to you. By expecting it by a certain date, you are allowing the Universe to get behind you and send you the energy to achieve your goal.  What happens if you do not manifest it by your specific date? That means that you were not supposed to have it at that time however the Universe is still behind you and setting up the scenario for that Porsche or an even better one to come into your life.  The challenge at this point is to be patient and keep the faith that your dream will materialize.

Lastly, remember that YOU set YOUR OWN limitations. Just because you do not earn $10,000 a month does not mean you are automatically excluded from manifesting an expensive car or anything else your heart desires. A million things could change and WILL if you allow yourself to get into the flow of life. You could win the lottery, (provided you buy a ticket), inherit Money from a long lost relative, get a promotion with a new company car or discover a huge chunk of pure gold in your backyard while gardening. Anything can and does happen. NEVER set limits and KNOW that you ALWAYS manifest what you truly desire.

The universe could care less what you ask for. Its only job is to provide to you what YOU request of it. If you (perhaps subconsciously) desire a life of limitation and lack, the universe will provide that for you too. It does not grant this or that to some people and not to others. ALL is given as is truly desired, without question or judgment. You truly co-create your own reality.

Perhaps until now you have created a reality of lack, misery, poverty and chaos for whatever reason. Now you have the tools to create what you most desire, by WILL. Believe it and you will see it. Create the request; magnetize that request and it WILL manifest in 3D form, without fail. You always get what you really want. If you do not get what you visualized, then think about why you got what you did. Dig deep down inside into your subconscious and belief systems to find out what went wrong. Were you crystal clear with your request? Has your pattern been to LOOK at something nice and WANT it, instead of doing the energy and physical work to own it it? Do you understand the difference? We have become so used to WANTING something and DREAMING about it but somehow many people do this believing their dream is impossible for them to achieve and so they become addicted to the WANTING and DESIRING, instead of just MANIFESTING it in their lives. It takes the same amount of energy to do either, and remember that the Universe could care less which of the two you prefer. Will you manifest the intentionally and create whit your want in life or are you going to leave it tot the random experiences that the Universe will supply you with?

You can manifest anything you want by using a powerful visualization technique similar to the one shared above. Whether you are looking to attract people, things, events, healing, love, and anything else that you can conceive apply the principle above, The process is the same. The effort is the same for manifesting lack or abundance. You ALWAYS co- create your own reality, whether you are aware of it or not. No exceptions.

Now is the time to begin deliberately creating the reality that you desire instead of creating a life haphazardly based on entrenched beliefs of lack and limitation. Why stick with a hit and miss way of living, when you can be in command. Yes, at times you may be fortuitous and actually manifest what you wanted but at times not. This is because you are a natural creator and create your own life experience. Perhaps you just did not know that you did. These Life Design Choices now enable you to understand the process thus enabling you to perfect this new way of living on purpose by design. Why not get what you want EVERY time instead of just from time to time? Knowledge is power. You now have a choice to integrate this new knowledge and use it actively in your life or stay within your comfort level of your old way of doing things.

Now that you see how powerful visualization is in crating the life you want.  If you are not visual, don’t worry – as long as you are focused on your creation with true intention the same results will come your way. Please realize that your future depends you focusing positively on what you want. To live a life with purpose and by design, it becomes important to develop this skill and hone it to a finely tuned instrument. Some people have tremendous difficulty with visualization. If you can not see it, rely on your other senses, perhaps your feelings, or knowing. We cannot stress enough how very important this skill is and how crucial it becomes in your journey into the future. We implore you to develop this skill starting today. Intent and focus is key here. You must believe you can manifest what you want.

Design Choice #4


The fourth Life Design Choice is emotion, which is the very foundation of everything. Find your emotional threshold in everything, because no matter how you look at it, the emotional ingredient you add to anything you do is what makes it happen. Emotion is what magnetizes all purposeful manifestation, good and bad. It adds the power, the wattage, to our prayers and our energy work. More emotion = more power and no emotion = no power. Emotion is the strange power that makes things happen, or the lack thereof will make things NOT happen. You can have all the ingredients in place for anything you wish to do or manifest, but without the power of emotion, it is empty and a waste of time. Intent without emotion is powerless. Emotion is the j electric juice that powers your energy work. With a dead electrical socket, nothing will work effectively even if you have all the other ingredients 100% in place.

EMOTION IS THE VERY KEY THAT MAKES IT ALL HAPPEN. Intent sets up what you wish to accomplish and EMOTION sends that intent out into the Universe. The Universe in turn receives your messages and says Okay to ALL requests, regardless of what you ask and then brings it into your life stream. The universe ALWAYS gives you what you truly desire, ALWAYS! You may have to examine WHY it is that you get what you get. Perhaps somewhere in your subconscious you are constantly reinforcing lack and want. Perhaps you prefer the DESIRE of something to that something itself. Emotion delivers your message of intent to the creative forces of the Universe. You are the director, the Universe the supplier.

So what is this emotion stuff and where can I get more of it?

Emotion is a strange concept and not well understood by most people. A short definition would be that it is an amplifier for our feelings. You may be feeling good, bad or perhaps frustrated. Then for some reason you tap into your heart center and suddenly a whole new energy is mixed with your mental thoughts and feelings.

This heart power is what converts a mental feeling into a powerful emotion. For example: Frustration and anger are mental issues and they remain superficial feelings, until for some reason we connect the mind to the Heart and then suddenly a whole new emotion is established. It is no longer a superficial feeling but a deep and powerful emotion, powered by the Heart center.

Emotion is not black or white, good or bad. Emotion is released when we connect to our Heart center, deep inside. Connecting to the heart center while angry releases emotion with a negative quality that is destructive in nature. Most people seem to instinctively tap into the heart center when angry. Struggle and frustration have surrounded us all at some point in time so these negative emotions are nothing new to anyone.

Experiencing positive emotion is a more difficult matter. Men or those who run heavy and unbalanced male energy are especially open to this. Most humans, if not all, have experienced the positive emotions of Love, tenderness and caring somewhere in their life, even if only for a brief moment.  Sometimes these positive emotions are not as easy to express as with negative emotions. Remember that emotions are not negative positive, they just are. It is merely a life force generated from the heart center (heart chakra) when we tap into that energetic center.

People tend to access this heart center while in anger or hatred, which produces destructive emotions.  Emotions that you send out come back to you multiplied, so please be conscious of your thoughts.  Positive emotion is when we tap into the heart center while we are connected to the positive energies like love, caring, tenderness, compassion (remember what you give out come back to you multiplied). It is possible and more often than not it is the case, that we experience positive feelings from a mental perspective and not connect with the heart center at all. This results in a somewhat superficial and bland experience of our positive feelings. When we access the heart center and blend it with our positive mental feelings, we cannot experience that deep positive emotion we seek.

So then, to experience any deep powerful positive emotion, it is imperative to have the positive feelings generated by the mind and the positive feeling generated from the heart center, blend the two together  and give birth to a whole new energy. The potent energy of powerful positive emotion. This is the activating force that we seek.

The reason most men have a hard time with real positive emotion is that they tend ‘to be too analytical, too logical, and too mental. Since childhood we have been taught that men do not cry. Historically society's teachings have alienated men from connecting to this vitally important heart center. Men should to step out of their traditional role as aggressor and protector more often. With earth now entering the “Golden Age” men are now a liberty to let their feminine side come to the surface and let go of the “hunter-warrior” mentality.

Now we learn that we are indeed Divine Architects - CO-CREATORS and that we can create at will. We no longer have to fight for a piece of the prize for survival. When we allow ourselves to balance our true nature and step above and beyond those primitive survival instincts that drive men so intensely, we discover a whole new world.  Welcome to the world of caring, tenderness, love, light and oneness. A world of TRUE POWER.

In this new world we are whole and we can provide for ourselves with ease and without limitation. It is a tough leap of faith for many who are living life unconsciously, but when we begin to ALLOW ourselves to tap into this new magnificent world, we will make progress and become better, stronger and in fact discover our authentic selves.. However to get to that point, we should to begin with the basics and the most important of the basics are these Life Design Choices presented here, with specific focus to emotion and the Heart center connection. We must connect to our Heart centers more often and begin to maintain a healthier balance.

My advice is that you strive to become humble, open and receptive. Overcome that survivalist ego at least once a day and begin to trust in the Universal process. Know that you ARE a powerful creator, but be humble about it. Know the difference between humility and humbleness. Humiliation is destructive, whereas humbleness is powerful. It helps you understand your place in the universe.  And from this comes the attitude of GRAITUDE, grateful for everything you have in life, which is the most amazing experience because that in turn brings you more to be thankful for.

The most powerful prayer is saying Thank You, even before you receive that which you have asked for. It shows your total faith that something will be manifest as you requested because you are already thanking the Universe for it. When you just give thanks in a humble state, that act shows that you are acknowledging what you have and that you are aware of what you have been entrusted with. This in turn leads to manifesting your perfect life as more  is bestowed on you as you have demonstrated your sincerity, maturity and gratitude.

Please learn to LISTEN. Listen with your Heart and with your Soul ( via meditation). And when you HEAR, follow that guidance and direction with complete faith and trust in your Higher Self, knowing that its guidance  coming from a place on high and has been filtered by your Oversoul, who knows is what you most need and should follow. We do not have to learn the hard way. Life is meant to be easy.  Steven Lane Taylor wrote the book Row, Row, Row your boat. – Thinks for the Rhyme: Row, row, row your boat gently down the stream, merrily, merrily, merrily merrily, life is but a dream!   Learn to LISTEN and stay in the flow. By doing so your life will become golden, effortless and much more joyful.

I trust you will find much use for these Life Design Choices and I know they will serve you well once you master them. In the end it boils down to this: "Do you want to live a life by conscious design or will you choose to continue drifting aimlessly through your life-stream without a rudder and direction?"

You now have the tools to begin living a more meaningful life. Allow these powerful choices will serve you well along your journey. Bon Voyage.

 

 

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