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Four Steps to Living Your Life by Design and on Purpose
Many of my students and clients are searching for a
way to manifest their hearts desire. We often look
outside of ourselves for our answers when our truth
is tucked neatly inside of us. Should one decide to
follow the outline below one will notice a positive
change in their life. Wouldn't it be great to have
the kind of life we dream about? You can when you
choose to live your life by design and on purpose.
Introduction:
Most of us are aware that Mother Earth is currently
ascending from the third, slipping through the
fourth and into fifth dimension which is shifting
into the Golden Age. The process of ascending and
the accompanied acceleration of energies affect
everyone and everything around us.
As we begin to shift, an entirely new paradigm
becomes available to us. Suddenly we realize deep
inside of us that everything in manifestation is
just energy in one shape or another. This being the
case, our material world suddenly seems less dense
and it takes on a whole new world of possibilities.
Nothing is firm or fixed anymore. It never really
was. It was only our brainwashing into linear
perception of the world that made it appear as fixed
and firm. The new Source Energies present on earth
allows us to see past the veils that were placed
upon us and now everything is open to
interpretation. When we take a moment to reflect on
this deeply, the realization dawns on us that our
whole existence here is but a grand illusion, or “A
holographic projection".
I know this is rather confusing at first. However
eventually you will come to understand that what we
perceive as reality right now is not real at all. It
is in fact a holographic manifestation or projection
of what is real. Remember the movie “The Matrix?”
this is the concept we speak of. Perhaps an analogy
would help wrap your mind around this concept.
Think of your home computer and consider for a
minute the word processing program (Word/
WordPerfect). On the screen it looks fairly easy and
operates as a seemingly independent entity. When we
look deeper into this tool we realize that it is a
construct, a final manifestation of thousands of
hours of hard work and thousands of lines of
computer source code that makes this program what it
is. The reality of this program is not the user's
experience of the program, but is in fact that the
thousands of lines of source code that makes it
work. These thousands of lines of compiled source
code result in a seemingly independent program that
you can use as a tool to create with. Its true
essence is not the display on the screen or the
functions it performs, but instead it is just a long
set of instructions and logic code that operates
inside the specific framework of a CPU and memory
chips. The computer is the matrix that allows the
source code to become manifest as a seemingly
independent entity.
Our 3D reality is the same. It is amazing how many
parallels there are between our current reality and
the world of computers. For thousands of years we
have perceived our reality to be material, to be
firm and unchanging. Remember when we thought the
world was flat? Now new Source Energy is changing
our world and we are being catapulted into a higher
vibration. What we previously depended on for sanity
is slipping though our fingers as we have the
opportunity to embrace a totally new way of being.
With these moments of transparency we can see
through the fabric of matter and we come to realize
that it is only a physical result of an underlying
energy matrix. Our reality is not real at all. In
fact it is the final product of what can be best
described as (using the computer analogy) cosmic
source code. There is a spirit energy matrix beneath
this physical construct of our world and every day
as we step closer to the 5th dimension we peer
through the veils and see the vastness of this
underlying spirit energy matrix.
Our very dimensional shift implies that we are
moving our experience of creation out from the
material world into the finer, more vibrant spirit
based world of manifest reality. What we once
thought of as being real, that which we could see
touch and taste is now understood to be a result of
an underlying spirit energy matrix, which is a
better definition of what really is real. Think
about it... If the underlying spirit energy matrix
changes, then the material result or physical
manifestation would also change.
From this new perspective we can say that our 3rd
dimensional world is a manifestation of the spirit
energy matrix that supports it. If we can learn to
change the spirit energy matrix beneath, learn to
change the cosmic source code, then we can change
physical manifestation here in our physical world.
Very cool stuff, don't you think?
Now that we have a better understanding of the
relationship between spirit energy and our physical
world, we are better equipped to mold our life
experience the way we desire it to be. As part of
this dimensional shift, our perceptions and
abilities are also shifting. This allows us the
opportunity to live a life by purposeful design
instead of being a powerless and "helpless victim"
to the world around us.
To help you get started with this new way of
thinking and to empower you to live life
purposefully by design, I have included a few tips
that you may think of as "Life Design Choices".
These Life Design Choices if practiced and perfected
will allow you to experience a totally new reality,
one in which YOU are purposefully CO-Creating with
the creative energies of the Universe.
Life Design Choice #1
The first Life Design Choice is "Meditation".
Meditation is defined as "passive listening to the
IAM THAT I AM". Regardless of your definition of
God, when you are in a meditative state and you
manage to quiet the chatter of the mind, you become
open and receptive to the Divine Spark within. The
importance of daily meditation cannot be overstated.
When you are in this state of passive receptivity, a
whole new world opens up to you for experience and
exploration. There are no limits only the limits you
set for yourself. Many meditation techniques exist
and you should use the one which bests suits your
needs. It is however very important that you follow
these basic steps:
· relaxation
· protection
· request or invocation
· passive receptivity
All are self-explanatory but perhaps the second step
can use some clarification. Always protect your
space where you meditate or do any spirit work.
Visually create a cocoon of brilliant white Light
around your body (aura) extending at least three
feet in all directions. Seal this cocoon with a
layer of electric blue Light (from Archangel
Michael), much like the shell of an egg. Be sure
that your body is positioned in the center of that
egg and you are in the center of your head. Also ask
Archangel Michael to protect you and your scared
workspace by adding a layer of electric blue light
to the area that you are meditating in. This
protection is important to ensure you are not
approached or bothered by "beings' that are not of
pure origin, such as from the lower astral planes.
You may also make a request to ONLY connect with"
beings of light' and energies from the 5th dimension
or above. You may also ask if the "being" is from
the divine spark of God, if not ask it to leave and
it will. Beings will always tell the truth if they
are asked.
It is important to establish a fixed routine of
meditating every day for 20 minutes to one hour, at
the same time of the day. Beings that work with you
will spot the fixed time, realize you are serious
and dedicated to meditative practice and will show
up every day at that same time to work and interact
with you. It can be hard to establish such a routine
but consider what is more important, television or
your spiritual growth. If you wish, allocate the
last 30 minutes you would normally watch television
before bed to doing your spiritual practice instead.
After 21 days it will be a firm habit. It sounds
tedious but try it. You will begin love the
experience and look forward to it. It could become
the highlight of your day and you may be tempted to
spend hours in meditation. Remember, enjoy your
experience, each one will be unique!
Life Design Choice #2
The second Life Design Choice is
"conceptualization". During the meditation, when
you are quietly listening to the divine spark
within (Your Higher Self, I AM Presence,
ALL-That-Is). You begin connecting to the higher
aspects of your multi-dimensional self, (Oversoul)
and it is during this state that new concepts are
imprinted into your consciousness. Dr. Wayne Dyer
says if you “Believe it you’ll see it”. In simpler
terms, whatever picture you can conceive for the
life you wish to live, IS POSSIBLE.
In this essay, you will be given the tools to make
anything possible. Keep in mind that there are no
limitations in the Universe, barring ourselves. We
set our own limitations and if we can break through
our insistence to place limitations on everything,
then the universe becomes our cosmic playground. All
you need to do is give yourself permission to
consider that everything and anything is possible
and the only reason that you are experiencing a
reality with limitation is because YOU set those
very limitations.
Life Design Choice #3
The third Life Design Choice is "visualization".
This is a very powerful design choice and is our
first action choice. The first two Life Design
Choices are passive in nature and require only that
you be receptive and stretch your imagination
letting go of limitations. Once you have conceived
of a desired outcome or preferred result (of
anything), your next step is to bring it into your
life stream experience (of life consciousness). To
bring anything into our lives, we need to create a
magnetic pull for that object, person, quality or
event.
The first step is to visualize the desired outcome
in as much detail as possible. It is important to
mentally see (or use your imagination of you are not
visual) the final result as if it is currently
happening and you have to see it in the first
person, as if you are currently participating in the
scenario you are visualizing. Seeing a picture of
yourself in the scenario but separate from you, as
if you are the movie camera, is much less effective
than actually participating in the mental scenario
directly. It is best to "view" the visualization as
if you are in it right now in present time and
everything you wish to manifest is taking place
around you. Use as much detail as possible. Add
feeling and emotion to the visualization. Include
all of the five usual senses. See, hear, taste,
smell, and feel what you want.
If you wish to have a new car, be specific. "I now
call to my life experience an lapis blue metallic,
2006 model, Porsche Carerra, Stone grey leather
interior, 6 speed manual transmission and a sun roof
by or before
December 31st 2006. The next step is to charge this
request with a visualization and emotion. Go for a
test-drive, and feel the experience of what you want
to manifest. See yourself walking out of your house
and there it is, shiny and sparkly, parked in your
driveway. Walk up to it, open the door, and hear the
rubber door seals separate from the metal as the
door opens. Slide in the drivers seat, smell the new
leather, hear the leather seats creak under your
weight as you sink into its plush upholstery. Rub
your hands on the dash board and anything in the
interior that you wish to touch. Close the door and
feel the air pressure change on your eardrums as the
airtight door seal with a click. How does the key
feel in your hand? Start the engine and hear it its
reassuring hum. Take a mental note of the
instrumentation panel. Feel the joy in your heart
and the adrenaline in your blood. Now back it out of
the driveway and take it for a drive.
Use as much detail as possible but focus on what is
FEELS like. Feeling is the emotion that creates the
magnetic attraction. Keep this intensely focused
visualization for a minimum of 7.5 continuous
seconds, preferably for 68 continuous seconds. If
you want to manifest this exact car in your life, as
your own, do a power visualization like this as
often as you feel the need, and then let it go,
knowing without a doubt that before your set date,
the universe WILL manifest this car in your life.
Don't be surprised when it does. Be careful what you
ask for, as you WILL get it. Letting go means
ridding yourself of the fear that you can never have
this car. It also means letting go of how the car
will come to you. By expecting it by a certain date,
you are allowing the Universe to get behind you and
send you the energy to achieve your goal. What
happens if you do not manifest it by your specific
date? That means that you were not supposed to have
it at that time however the Universe is still behind
you and setting up the scenario for that Porsche or
an even better one to come into your life. The
challenge at this point is to be patient and keep
the faith that your dream will materialize.
Lastly, remember that YOU set YOUR OWN limitations.
Just because you do not earn $10,000 a month does
not mean you are automatically excluded from
manifesting an expensive car or anything else your
heart desires. A million things could change and
WILL if you allow yourself to get into the flow of
life. You could win the lottery, (provided you buy a
ticket), inherit Money from a long lost relative,
get a promotion with a new company car or discover a
huge chunk of pure gold in your backyard while
gardening. Anything can and does happen. NEVER set
limits and KNOW that you ALWAYS manifest what you
truly desire.
The universe could care less what you ask for. Its
only job is to provide to you what YOU request of
it. If you (perhaps subconsciously) desire a life of
limitation and lack, the universe will provide that
for you too. It does not grant this or that to some
people and not to others. ALL is given as is truly
desired, without question or judgment. You truly
co-create your own reality.
Perhaps until now you have created a reality of
lack, misery, poverty and chaos for whatever reason.
Now you have the tools to create what you most
desire, by WILL. Believe it and you will see it.
Create the request; magnetize that request and it
WILL manifest in 3D form, without fail. You always
get what you really want. If you do not get what you
visualized, then think about why you got what you
did. Dig deep down inside into your subconscious and
belief systems to find out what went wrong. Were you
crystal clear with your request? Has your pattern
been to
LOOK
at something nice and WANT it, instead of doing the
energy and physical work to own it it? Do you
understand the difference? We have become so used to
WANTING something and DREAMING about it but somehow
many people do this believing their dream is
impossible for them to achieve and so they become
addicted to the WANTING and DESIRING, instead of
just MANIFESTING it in their lives. It takes the
same amount of energy to do either, and remember
that the Universe could care less which of the two
you prefer. Will you manifest the intentionally and
create whit your want in life or are you going to
leave it tot the random experiences that the
Universe will supply you with?
You can manifest anything you want by using a
powerful visualization technique similar to the one
shared above. Whether you are looking to attract
people, things, events, healing, love, and anything
else that you can conceive apply the principle
above, The process is the same. The effort is the
same for manifesting lack or abundance. You ALWAYS
co- create your own reality, whether you are aware
of it or not. No exceptions.
Now is the time to begin deliberately creating the
reality that you desire instead of creating a life
haphazardly based on entrenched beliefs of lack and
limitation. Why stick with a hit and miss way of
living, when you can be in command. Yes, at times
you may be fortuitous and actually manifest what you
wanted but at times not. This is because you are a
natural creator and create your own life experience.
Perhaps you just did not know that you did. These
Life Design Choices now enable you to understand the
process thus enabling you to perfect this new way of
living on purpose by design. Why not get what you
want EVERY time instead of just from time to time?
Knowledge is power. You now have a choice to
integrate this new knowledge and use it actively in
your life or stay within your comfort level of your
old way of doing things.
Now that you see how powerful visualization is in
crating the life you want. If you are not visual,
don’t worry – as long as you are focused on your
creation with true intention the same results will
come your way. Please realize that your future
depends you focusing positively on what you want. To
live a life with purpose and by design, it becomes
important to develop this skill and hone it to a
finely tuned instrument. Some people have tremendous
difficulty with visualization. If you can not see
it, rely on your other senses, perhaps your
feelings, or knowing. We cannot stress enough how
very important this skill is and how crucial it
becomes in your journey into the future. We implore
you to develop this skill starting today. Intent and
focus is key here. You must believe you can manifest
what you want.
Design Choice #4
The fourth Life Design Choice is emotion, which is
the very foundation of everything. Find your
emotional threshold in everything, because no matter
how you look at it, the emotional ingredient you add
to anything you do is what makes it happen. Emotion
is what magnetizes all purposeful manifestation,
good and bad. It adds the power, the wattage, to our
prayers and our energy work. More emotion = more
power and no emotion = no power. Emotion is the
strange power that makes things happen, or the lack
thereof will make things NOT happen. You can have
all the ingredients in place for anything you wish
to do or manifest, but without the power of emotion,
it is empty and a waste of time. Intent without
emotion is powerless. Emotion is the j electric
juice that powers your energy work. With a dead
electrical socket, nothing will work effectively
even if you have all the other ingredients 100% in
place.
EMOTION IS THE VERY
KEY THAT MAKES IT
ALL HAPPEN. Intent sets up what you wish to
accomplish and EMOTION sends that intent out into
the Universe. The Universe in turn receives your
messages and says Okay to ALL requests, regardless
of what you ask and then brings it into your life
stream. The universe ALWAYS gives you what you truly
desire, ALWAYS! You may have to examine WHY it is
that you get what you get. Perhaps somewhere in your
subconscious you are constantly reinforcing lack and
want. Perhaps you prefer the DESIRE of something to
that something itself. Emotion delivers your message
of intent to the creative forces of the Universe.
You are the director, the Universe the supplier.
So what is this emotion stuff and where can I get
more of it?
Emotion is a strange concept and not well understood
by most people. A short definition would be that it
is an amplifier for our feelings. You may be feeling
good, bad or perhaps frustrated. Then for some
reason you tap into your heart center and suddenly a
whole new energy is mixed with your mental thoughts
and feelings.
This heart power is what converts a mental feeling
into a powerful emotion. For example: Frustration
and anger are mental issues and they remain
superficial feelings, until for some reason we
connect the mind to the Heart and then suddenly a
whole new emotion is established. It is no longer a
superficial feeling but a deep and powerful emotion,
powered by the Heart center.
Emotion is not black or white, good or bad. Emotion
is released when we connect to our Heart center,
deep inside. Connecting to the heart center while
angry releases emotion with a negative quality that
is destructive in nature. Most people seem to
instinctively tap into the heart center when angry.
Struggle and frustration have surrounded us all at
some point in time so these negative emotions are
nothing new to anyone.
Experiencing positive emotion is a more difficult
matter. Men or those who run heavy and unbalanced
male energy are especially open to this. Most
humans, if not all, have experienced the positive
emotions of Love, tenderness and caring somewhere in
their life, even if only for a brief moment.
Sometimes these positive emotions are not as easy
to express as with negative emotions. Remember that
emotions are not negative positive, they just are.
It is merely a life force generated from the heart
center (heart chakra) when we tap into that
energetic center.
People tend to access this heart center while in
anger or hatred, which produces destructive
emotions. Emotions that you send out come back to
you multiplied, so please be conscious of your
thoughts. Positive emotion is when we tap into the
heart center while we are connected to the positive
energies like love, caring, tenderness, compassion
(remember what you give out come back to you
multiplied). It is possible and more often than not
it is the case, that we experience positive feelings
from a mental perspective and not connect with the
heart center at all. This results in a somewhat
superficial and bland experience of our positive
feelings. When we access the heart center and blend
it with our positive mental feelings, we cannot
experience that deep positive emotion we seek.
So then, to experience any deep powerful positive
emotion, it is imperative to have the positive
feelings generated by the mind and the positive
feeling generated from the heart center, blend the
two together and give birth to a whole new energy.
The potent energy of powerful positive emotion. This
is the activating force that we seek.
The reason most men have a hard time with real
positive emotion is that they tend ‘to be too
analytical, too logical, and too mental. Since
childhood we have been taught that men do not cry.
Historically society's teachings have alienated men
from connecting to this vitally important heart
center. Men should to step out of their traditional
role as aggressor and protector more often. With
earth now entering the “Golden Age” men are now a
liberty to let their feminine side come to the
surface and let go of the “hunter-warrior”
mentality.
Now we learn that we are indeed Divine Architects -
CO-CREATORS and that we can create at will. We no
longer have to fight for a piece of the prize for
survival. When we allow ourselves to balance our
true nature and step above and beyond those
primitive survival instincts that drive men so
intensely, we discover a whole new world. Welcome
to the world of caring, tenderness, love, light and
oneness. A world of TRUE POWER.
In this new world we are whole and we can provide
for ourselves with ease and without limitation. It
is a tough leap of faith for many who are living
life unconsciously, but when we begin to ALLOW
ourselves to tap into this new magnificent world, we
will make progress and become better, stronger and
in fact discover our authentic selves.. However to
get to that point, we should to begin with the
basics and the most important of the basics are
these Life Design Choices presented here, with
specific focus to emotion and the Heart center
connection. We must connect to our Heart centers
more often and begin to maintain a healthier
balance.
My advice is that you strive to become humble, open
and receptive. Overcome that survivalist ego at
least once a day and begin to trust in the Universal
process. Know that you
ARE
a powerful creator, but be humble about it. Know the
difference between humility and humbleness.
Humiliation is destructive, whereas humbleness is
powerful. It helps you understand your place in the
universe. And from this comes the attitude of
GRAITUDE, grateful for everything you have in life,
which is the most amazing experience because that in
turn brings you more to be thankful for.
The most powerful prayer is saying Thank You, even
before you receive that which you have asked for. It
shows your total faith that something will be
manifest as you requested because you are already
thanking the Universe for it. When you just give
thanks in a humble state, that act shows that you
are acknowledging what you have and that you are
aware of what you have been entrusted with. This in
turn leads to manifesting your perfect life as more
is bestowed on you as you have demonstrated your
sincerity, maturity and gratitude.
Please learn to LISTEN. Listen with your Heart and
with your Soul ( via meditation). And when you
HEAR, follow that guidance and direction
with complete faith and trust in your Higher Self,
knowing that its guidance coming from a place on
high and has been filtered by your Oversoul, who
knows is what you most need and should follow. We do
not have to learn the hard way. Life is meant to be
easy.
Steven Lane Taylor wrote the book Row, Row, Row your
boat. – Thinks for the Rhyme: Row, row, row your
boat gently down the stream, merrily, merrily,
merrily merrily, life is but a dream! Learn to
LISTEN and stay in the flow. By doing so your life
will become golden, effortless and much more joyful.
I trust you will find much use for these Life Design
Choices and I know they will serve you well once you
master them. In the end it boils down to this: "Do
you want to live a life by conscious design or will
you choose to continue drifting aimlessly through
your life-stream without a rudder and direction?"
You now have the tools to begin living a more
meaningful life. Allow these powerful choices will
serve you well along your journey. Bon Voyage.
If you would like to schedule any of the following classes that will facilitate conquering the information given above, please contact Monique at:
e-mail:
monique@healing-visions.com
Phone: 888 240-6057 (toll free)
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